Sunday, January 10, 2010

A Confession

I substituted in primary today. The teacher called me, I think, because I own one of the squirrels in the class. I had taught the class before, months ago, and ended up with a headache and a sincere desire to check caller id before I answer the phone on a weekend. Today, though, the class was great. The kids were still full of energy, and one particular fairy princess kept dancing around and waving glitter everywhere (OK, that would be mine) but we had a productive and interesting discussion on the plan of salvation. It was fun.

A while ago, I took the kids to the dentist and, upon learning that I had six (!) kids, she picked up her jaw from the floor and commented that I must really like children. I was a little discombobulated. I got the impression that she viewed me as some strange phenomenon who loves to pinch cheeks, fix snacks, and wipe noses. And the the thing about kids is that they're not always likable--either singly or in aggregate. They can be whiny, bratty, rude, rotten, stubborn, spoiled, sloppy, slovenly, ditsy, flaky, too clever, too slow--and on, and on, and on. But if you give them a chance, kids are also pretty easy to love. When you look into a child's eyes, you see the windows of a soul that has not yet learned to close its shutters against such intrusion. Those windows reflect the pure light of Christ, all the more beautiful because it is unearned, unasked for, and that those small souls are unaware of the light within.

So, I don't think I particularly like children, more than any other group. But they are so easy to love.

3 comments:

  1. I ADORE CHILDREN!!! I believe my lot in life is to act as a child. They make me happy when I'm down. There is nothing more precious then looking into a childs eyes and seeing the wonder and amazement their little eyes hold. Thanks for the post. Here's to all the little kiddos I know and absolutely adore! xoxo Aunty Em

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  2. My children are amazing!!! I love them every millisecond of every moment in every day! They are my precious gifts and if the Lord would have seen fit to have given me a body that didn't break down I would have endeavored to have more! There is something wonderful about the way their eyes magically light up or when they smile and I find myself smiling in spite of myself in return in spite of myself. There is purity in their actions even when there is mischief which is why it is so easy to forgive! Love your insights...

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  3. Kids are pretty wonderful aren't they?

    Emily, I love that you have a childlike generous heart and forgiving nature.

    Doni, your kids seem like a pretty special blessing--the struggles only increase the joy.

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